Saturday, April 3, 2021

A Little Help Here.

 I woke up this morning to my 'to do' list from B.  Some of it is annoying...LOL.  Not the things I have to do, but the times or the things I cannot do.  BUT such is the life I have signed up for, actually encouraged.  One thing on my list is to come up with 3 post ideas to write about.  Um, so yeah, I'm not good at that really.  For those who  don't know me, thinking up posts, is not something I generally do.  I wish I did.  They either enter my head or they don't.  B has been known to give me assignments to write on a particular subject.  Sometimes I am able to run with those, ( What is Pain to Me, Personality Traits I need to Overcome to Help With My Submission).  Other times, I am counting words and digging out the online thesaurus to find adjectives to fill in the blanks, ( love to give you examples, but they didn't stick in my head LOL)


Honestly it's like he doesn't know what makes me tick!  LOL...Or doesn't care because he's going to make me tick (or give me a tick) regardless.  Soooooooooooooo,  anyone want to help?  I cannot guarantee I'll be able to use ideas, but I'd sure like a place to jump off from, (other than the top of my refrigerator).  You see my mind is still very much in my last post, and most likely will be for some time.  I only have so much space in there for processing.  To be fair he didn't say I had to write any time soon.  He just wants ideas for writing.


So if anyone can give me ideas to motivate my mind  before B does




that'd be swell.

( I do know about the writing prompt websites like Missy and the Submissive Coffee Club- haven't come across something that currently sparks my mind)

Oh and I need them by tonight- no pressure.







15 comments:

  1. LOL by tonite?? no pressure indeed LOL

    soooo here's an idea (cheeky grin) why not use my question theme?? I have written a rough draft and will probably post it tomorrow....

    as for other ideas ......

    The ideal Dom/sub relationship is _______________

    The importance of a 'collar' (literally and/or figuratively)

    ok I'm done -- not much good coming up with prompts for my own blog LOL .

    PS - did have a dom a few years back who used to give me topics to write about for my 'fictional' blog... I wanted to kill him.... I don't write well under pressure based on someone else's ideas - le sigh

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    1. I had started to construct your post idea last night in my head, then read your comment and it mostly disappeared. Lol. So I answered it on my previous post and it's fine from my head- at least for the moment.

      I think these men who don't write, just don't get the creative process. Mind you I'm not always sure B cares about creativity- I once was told to write (for him) a political essay. That was merely because he said so.

      Good luck with your post. I look forward to reading it.

      Willie

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  2. Well, as I'm new here I would be interested to hear about your beginnings as a couple in respect of ttwd?, has your thoughts on what ttwd changed a lot now compared to the start? what was it that had you taking this journey? what has been the best part? the worst part?

    Is there something you are keen to explore more of in relation to ttwd? did or do either of you had/have an idea of what you wanted to get from this? what do you get from blogging? what 3 pieces of advice would you give to a blogger that asked for advice on ttwd?

    ok, just some ideas :)

    Claire

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    1. Thanks for your thoughts on things you'd like to know as writing prompts. At the very least I can most certainly answer them her tonight in my free time - if I don't end up using them.

      willie

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  3. *them tonight- see this is why I don't use my phone for typing. Lol

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  4. Did you see the numbered items 1 through 4 that I commented on your blog last night? One of those might spark something because they are directly from your comments on explanations for the blog post that your mind is still processing. ?? Other than that, how about the quote by Devlin.....dang it, now I gotta go look it up. Talk about bad memory. Sheesh. It's one sentence. BRB Good grief, it's not him. It's Kate Cunningham's book and here is the quote : "The goal of submission is not perfection. The goal of submission is submission." I know you could write about that! Hugs, Windy

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  5. Hi Willie,

    LoL, no pressure then. Not sure I would be able come up with ideas if told to either, they have to find me lol

    - what lessons (not *that* kind of lesson) have you learned from ttwd
    - have you found ttwd spills over into other aspects of life and if so how so
    - favourite parts of ttwd/least favourite

    Hugs
    Roz

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  6. Thanks Roz! I'm so uninspired. Lol. Then again he never did say I was going to have to write a post based on the ideas I give him

    willie

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  7. oh btw I did try to email you as you kindly offered with blog roll problem but it said page unknown, anyway I followed what everyone said, I googled help, I u tubed videos and nope, I get an error 500 come up every time I hit save, up until that point all goes well!

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    1. Oh boy maybe I cannot help then. But my email is wilma.barney@gmail.com

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  8. Thanks ladies!

    I was given some great direction from you all and another friend. I used Morningstar's suggestion from my last post and a question Claire asked concerning how Ttwd has changed from our initial beginning, as well as an idea I had after coming across a conversation I had several years ago with a gf while looking for a graphic for this post.

    B only asked me to come up with 3 ideas- he never said I was actually going to write about them. He's tricky like that. The exercise might only be for ideas to write not actually writing. I guess you'll know eventually lol

    willie

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  9. LOL "you'll know eventually"?? I'm betting you'll know first ...

    In the interest of my TTWD post that's spinning in my head - I'll be interested to see if B does act on this further :)

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    1. He did give me a writing assignment for today, but not based on the 3 I gave.

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  10. Ok Morningstar, he did give me " What I learned about submission..." To be completed by tonight

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