So We Took Another Leap of Faith !
Before everybody tells us to slow down, I have to explain. This weekend is Thanksgiving here in the Great White North, so the children will be around, a lot! To further this long weekend the children also have Friday off. So basically 4 wonderful days of fridge-raiding, pre-and post pubescent boys kicking around. Barney works a job that has unusual hours compared to the average 9 to 5 er, so we are often alone during the day, like today. We decided to take advantage of our last alone time for 4 days.
Okay back to the topic at hand. Last night Lillie suggested that we start with a little erotic spanking, to test the waters if you will. I thought, what the heck? I mean I think it would help work some of the kinks out, before the nitty gritty starts in the future. We were supposed to hash out some rules today, but we can actually do that with the fridge monsters around, so we postponed that for now. Good thing, because I have a tendency to get a little snippy from the time I take the turkey out of the oven, until everyone has full plates of food at the table !
So, insert idea in Barney's head. He seems game. Leary but game. I pulled an article off of the Internet for him, to try to boost his knowledge and perhaps his confidence in this whole thing.
I myself, painted my toe nails hot pink. Not sure why, but what the heck? Put on one of his favourite little skirts. Even though he prefers thongs, put on undies instead, more coverage I guess. I had a bath with baby oil to make my tush nice and soft, ( I think he almost killed himself in the shower after, despite cleaning the tub 3 times, oops. Again, good thing no rules are in place !). Okay. All set. Up we go, close the door, heard about pet interference and I don't need our Bi-polar Bitch trying to dismember Barney, ( yet, time may tell). I personally had waaaay less of an issue than I thought I would. I thought it would be kind of humiliating, ( would imagine this actually is a factor with a punishment spanking). It took a great deal of encouragement to get B. to go a little harder. Finally I said,
" I've given birth to 3 kids, no drugs. This does NOT hurt. So don't worry about it"
A few things worried him, the sound, the colour of my backside, as he said, " It looks sunburned" (
I suppose implements will be of great importance, for sound and well to take the way the sting from him and transfer it to my behind. Perhaps this will make him more comfortable. Okay, seriously, I can't believe I am 'helping' him out with this idea! I'm sure it will come back to bite me in the butt, literally. However, if that is what it takes to ' get 'er done' then I guess I'll do my part.
He's willing to give it another go next week. I could DEFINITELY get used to the erotic spanking-although him not quite enjoying it takes a little pleasure away.