For those that don't know me, my name is Lillie - and I am in the 2nd year of dd with Ian, my husband of nearly 30 years.
|arguably good kitty representation of my husband,|
please add a moustache (he spanks with zealous abandon)
I am not in blogland very often anymore, I miss it - but life lately conspires to keep me occupied elsewhere. My little
Sort of a Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants sequel.....except with long discussion about spanky husbands, battery operated sex toys, nipple clamps and the like....all sans HoHs. Susie's MM was out of town for the week.....and we went to town (so to speak) in his absence.
|MM and his little Susie - I swear they are that cute....|
Collectively, the three of us have approximately 6 years of time invested in making domestic discipline relationships work. Added together, we have probably experienced 171,000 spankings... one would think that would make us something of experts.
But we are not.....we struggle mightily.
We achieve moments of perfection as submissive wives, followed by days of angst.
We merrily disobey our husbands.
We fall flat on our non-submissive faces. Sometimes, as much as our husbands care, they cannot give us what we need to pick ourselves back up and try again.
We need each other. We need encouragement from someone who knows what it is like to walk the green mile and have a one on one session with old sparky (or whatever said husband has nicknamed his favourite paddle.)
That's why I was so sad to hear that there are women in the dd blogland community who worry that they may not fit the "cookie cutter" mold of a domestically disciplined wife and worse, consider stepping away from this community, because they struggle to live up to the ideal of a submissive woman.
Fear not, girls.
Reach out and grab hold of a dd sister. Lean on her, and let her lean back.
You cannot put the desire to live this life on a shelf. If you are like me, you probably spent enough of your life in denial about who you really are. Instead, embrace your desire to be owned by your man and never let go of your saucy inner brat that keeps things interesting...... afterall, that he why he married/lives with/dates you.
And when you need the special kind of affirmation that can only come in fellowship.......
|My support network.....Susie, Willie and Me|
......don't be afraid to reach out to someone who knows exactly what you are going through.